Thanks Darth ;) My opinion is, its an essential part of the modded Skyrim experience, thus it stays. That, of course, doesn't stop you from not installing it for your play through or setting the difficulty lower in the MCM. :)
Sounds like any one of the following: 1) SKSE memory patch not working (use Memory Blocks Log to check). 2) ENBoost not properly configured. 3) Something really wonky... Its not physically possible to have VRAM 4500 on a 4GB card.
I've never seen that, but never went looking either. Since it was added via RaceMenu it might be a question to ask expired since I'm not familiar enough with how it does its thing to give a good answer.
My methodology is thus: 1) Install main file 2) Install UPDATES and merge. 3) Install each OPTIONAL/MISC as its own mod to overwrite/extend the base mod.
This. :) HDT removes the need for BBP animations but not the need for BBP enabled armors/bodies which provide the weight painting. 1) You'll be missing out on an awesome addition to the game. 2) You'll need to roll your own CR.
I used to have load screen mods, then I got an SSD... I know my rank, I don't need a mod to remind me. I like this mod and it was actually in original SR, I might re-add it. I like this one also.