Got it to work. did the old do-something-else-for-a-day-and-then-come-back-and-try-the-same-thing-again and it worked, bc of course it did.
Well not entirely true i did change a few things: Updated MO2 to the current version, ran it as admin and set the process high priority, told my mom about it, left the settings in DynDOLOD on High standard without the changes to "tree" and "\" as stated in the STEP guide and skipped road generation with the ACMOS Road Generator Tool, since AVAST flagged it as trojan. Ran it trough Virustotal to make sure and it came up with
Cynet: Malicious (score: 100) (moderate Confidence)
Jiangmin:Trojan.PSW.Disco.eng BehavesLike.Win64.HLLP.vc
still not entirely sure if thats a false positive, but enough for me to stay away from it. Might talk to DoubleYou about that. Then again Nexus should check all uploaded files? idk
None of use from what i understand. The few in /logs which fairy posted aswell but no bugreport.txt or the other one requested in the FAQ
Funny how the most obvious things sometimes just dont come to mind. Or im just an idiot. Prolly bit of both.
I feel like that did the trick. Sorry to waste ur time, could have thought of that myself^^
In any case thanks for the help, much appreciated
