FYI, the current alpha build of SKSE has the memory patch integrated. (Build is up on https://skse.silverlock.org/ now). The change notes have the new ini settings, though I believe the *values* default to what is in the 2.2.8 guide for the memory patch.
Also... I think there may be a thread on this forum for this but I am not seeing it. The "Skyrim.exe" tool (really needs a better name) is pretty nice and addresses a lot of windowing issues. https://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/50221/?
I'm using it instead of Borderless Window, Double Cursor Fix, AltF4, etc.
You can also toss in a STEP styled splash screen. :)