Well, i think i have the issue down. If i untick-deactivate or add just one mod in my list it causes that crazy issue where it somehow deactivates all the mods i have and says they didnt exist, thus causes the wacky issues. What i mean is: when my game decides to work with my mods like it is now it looks stable, until something messes with them then all hell breaks lose. this last issue was with MO and it randomly thinking my active mods were deactivated when they weren't. other issue is when i deactivate a mod or add a mod, then these issues come up.