Well heres my load order...
https://pastebin.com/rWSYZrPK
From a new game using alternate start with Faendal and Gorr from interesting npcs I entered random dungeons, ran between every major settlement, entering random buildings, even with asis increased spawns running, would have random judders out in the wilderness but asume that was in regard to cell transition? four and a half hours (my skyrim folder is 32 gb thereabouts with a texture folder of just over 9gb with 75% textures 2k and the remainder 1k) later occasional freezes which lasted a second at most, no crashing, so am soooo grateful for this, just gotta figure out why my savegame has gone from just over 8mb to just over 12mb in four odd hours.....